I help people strengthen their relationships and become the best versions of themselves through the framework of the Enneagram.

HI, I'M ASHTON

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  • I'm obsessed with my rescue pup
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  • My toxic trait is that I buy a lot of craft supplies and I never complete the craft

I created Enneagram Ashton after discovering how impactful the Enneagram can be in understanding yourself and others. As someone who loves to help others (aka an undeniable Enneagram 2), I consider it a privilege to share this amazing tool with others.

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  • Develop confidence in your Enneagram type and your biggest fears and desires
  • Discover your greatest strengths and biggest areas for growth
  • Understand your stressors and how you respond to stress
  • Learn ways to step into the best version of yourself

The Enneagram: Ancient Wisdom for a Modern-Day World

KEY TAKEAWAYS

For thousands of years, people have always been looking to understand who they are and seeking to put words to their behaviors. Tools like Myers-Briggs, StrengthsFinder, and the DISC assessment have helped individuals and groups describe pieces of their personality. But WHY do we behave that way? WHY are we like that?

Insert the Enneagram. An ancient tool that has been around for thousands of years. Instead of focusing on your behaviors, the Enneagram is about the why, the how, and the motivations behind our behaviors. When we know WHY we do something, we can understand ourselves more deeply and ultimately change the behaviors that we don’t like. So let’s take an ancient tool and apply it to our understanding of today.


  • Understand how your Enneagram type shows up in romantic relationships, friendships, and family relationships
  • Discover effective ways to communicate based on your Enneagram type
  • Learn how to best interact with other Enneagram types
  • Recognize ways to be the best version of yourself in all types of relationships

Let’s give them something to talk about: The Enneagram for Relationships

KEY TAKEAWAYS

The Enneagram forces us to recognize that we all view the world differently. That there is often more than one right way of doing something. So how can we better understand people who have a different worldview than our own? This is where the Enneagram comes in. 

Imagine a world where instead of getting frustrated at others’ behaviors, you started to understand why they were behaving that way. Instead of being quick to judge, you asked questions and listened. Instead of assuming that everyone should act like you, you were able to understand the differences in others.

Because when we know better, we can do better.


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  • Uderstand how your Enneagram type shows up in the workplace
  • Uncover effective ways to communicate and resolve conflict based on your Enneagram type
  • Learn how to best interact with other Enneagram types in the workplace
  • Gain skills on how to give and receive feedback based on your Enneagram type
  • Discover how to use the Enneagram to become a high-performing team

Water Cooler Talk: Using the Enneagram in the Workplace

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Researchers claim that we will spend 1/3 of our lives at work. This means that we spend more waking hours with our colleagues and coworkers than anyone else. A successful business and organization is only as strong as its people and the relationships within the group.

The Enneagram is a powerful tool that allows us to understand each other more deeply. The way that we communicate. How we work through conflict. Our strengths and our areas for growth in the workplace. Learning about the Enneagram can help strengthen relationships inside (and outside) of the working environment.

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Have something else in mind? Reach out!
I'm always happy to tailor topics to your needs.


Signature Speaking Topics 

EXAMPLES OF TOPICS YOU COULD BOOK ASHTON FOR

Click through to explore the signature speaking engagements. You'll see what the topic is about and what the key takeaways are.


For thousands of years, people have always been looking to understand who they are and seeking to put words to their behaviors. Tools like Myers-Briggs, StrengthsFinder, and the DISC assessment have helped individuals and groups describe pieces of their personality. But WHY do we behave that way? WHY are we like that?

The Enneagram: Ancient Wisdom for a Modern-Day World

EXAMPLES OF TOPICS YOU COULD BOOK ASHTON FOR

 ❇︎ BOOK ASHTON NOW ❇︎
 ❇︎ BOOK ASHTON NOW ❇︎
  • Develop confidence in your Enneagram type and your biggest fears and desires
  • Discover your greatest strengths and biggest areas for growth
  • Understand your stressors and how you respond to stress
  • Learn ways to step into the best version of yourself

The Enneagram: Ancient Wisdom for a Modern-Day World

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Understand how your Enneagram type shows up in romantic relationships, friendships, and family relationships
  • Discover effective ways to communicate based on your Enneagram type
  • Learn how to best interact with other Enneagram types
  • Recognize ways to be the best version of yourself in all types of relationships

Let’s give them something to talk about: The Enneagram for Relationships

KEY TAKEAWAYS

The Enneagram forces us to recognize that we all view the world differently. That there is often more than one right way of doing something. So how can we better understand people who have a different worldview than our own? This is where the Enneagram comes in. 

Imagine a world where instead of getting frustrated at others’ behaviors, you started to understand why they were behaving that way. Instead of being quick to judge, you asked questions and listened. Instead of assuming that everyone should act like you, you were able to understand the differences in others.

Because when we know better, we can do better.


 ❇︎ BOOK ASHTON NOW ❇︎
  • Uderstand how your Enneagram type shows up in the workplace
  • Uncover effective ways to communicate and resolve conflict based on your Enneagram type
  • Learn how to best interact with other Enneagram types in the workplace
  • Gain skills on how to give and receive feedback based on your Enneagram type
  • Discover how to use the Enneagram to become a high-performing team

Water Cooler Talk: Using the Enneagram in the Workplace

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Researchers claim that we will spend 1/3 of our lives at work. This means that we spend more waking hours with our colleagues and coworkers than anyone else. A successful business and organization is only as strong as its people and the relationships within the group.

The Enneagram is a powerful tool that allows us to understand each other more deeply. The way that we communicate. How we work through conflict. Our strengths and our areas for growth in the workplace. Learning about the Enneagram can help strengthen relationships inside (and outside) of the working environment.

 ❇︎ BOOK ASHTON NOW ❇︎

KEY TAKEAWAYS: 

  • Develop confidence in your Enneagram type and your biggest fears and desires
  • Discover your greatest strengths and biggest areas for growth
  • Understand your stressors and how you respond to stress
  • Learn ways to step into the best version of yourself

The Enneagram: Ancient Wisdom for a Modern-Day World

For thousands of years, people have always been looking to understand who they are and seeking to put words to their behaviors. Tools like Myers-Briggs, StrengthsFinder, and the DISC assessment have helped individuals and groups describe pieces of their personality. But WHY do we behave that way? WHY are we like that?

Insert the Enneagram. An ancient tool that has been around for thousands of years. Instead of focusing on your behaviors, the Enneagram is about the why, the how, and the motivations behind our behaviors. When we know WHY we do something, we can understand ourselves more deeply and ultimately change the behaviors that we don’t like. So let’s take an ancient tool and apply it to our understanding of today.

 ❇︎ BOOK ASHTON NOW ❇︎

Let’s give them something to talk about: The Enneagram for Relationships

KEY TAKEAWAYS: 

  • Understand how your Enneagram type shows up in romantic relationships, friendships, and family relationships
  • Discover effective ways to communicate based on your Enneagram type
  • Learn how to best interact with other Enneagram types
  • Recognize ways to be the best version of yourself in all types of relationships

Let’s give them something to talk about: The Enneagram for Relationships

The Enneagram forces us to recognize that we all view the world differently. That there is often more than one right way of doing something. So how can we better understand people who have a different worldview than our own? This is where the Enneagram comes in. 

Imagine a world where instead of getting frustrated at others’ behaviors, you started to understand why they were behaving that way. Instead of being quick to judge, you asked questions and listened. Instead of assuming that everyone should act like you, you were able to understand the differences in others.

Because when we know better, we can do better.

 ❇︎ BOOK ASHTON NOW ❇︎

Water Cooler Talk: Using the Enneagram in the Workplace

KEY TAKEAWAYS: 

  • Understand how your Enneagram type shows up in the workplace
  • Uncover effective ways to communicate and resolve conflict based on your Enneagram type
  • Learn how to best interact with other Enneagram types in the workplace
  • Gain skills on how to give and receive feedback based on your Enneagram type
  • Discover how to use the Enneagram to become a high-performing team

Water Cooler Talk: Using the Enneagram in the Workplace

Researchers claim that we will spend 1/3 of our lives at work. This means that we spend more waking hours with our colleagues and coworkers than anyone else. A successful business and organization is only as strong as its people and the relationships within the group.

The Enneagram is a powerful tool that allows us to understand each other more deeply. The way that we communicate. How we work through conflict. Our strengths and our areas for growth in the workplace. Learning about the Enneagram can help strengthen relationships inside (and outside) of the working environment.



 ❇︎ BOOK ASHTON NOW ❇︎

For thousands of years, people have always been looking to understand who they are and seeking to put words to their behaviors. Tools like Myers-Briggs, StrengthsFinder, and the DISC assessment have helped individuals and groups describe pieces of their personality. But WHY do we behave that way? WHY are we like that?

The Enneagram: Ancient Wisdom for a Modern-Day World

EXAMPLES OF TOPICS YOU COULD BOOK ASHTON FOR

 ❇︎ BOOK ASHTON NOW ❇︎
 ❇︎ BOOK ASHTON NOW ❇︎
  • Develop confidence in your Enneagram type and your biggest fears and desires
  • Discover your greatest strengths and biggest areas for growth
  • Understand your stressors and how you respond to stress
  • Learn ways to step into the best version of yourself

The Enneagram: Ancient Wisdom for a Modern-Day World

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Understand how your Enneagram type shows up in romantic relationships, friendships, and family relationships
  • Discover effective ways to communicate based on your Enneagram type
  • Learn how to best interact with other Enneagram types
  • Recognize ways to be the best version of yourself in all types of relationships

Let’s give them something to talk about: The Enneagram for Relationships

KEY TAKEAWAYS

The Enneagram forces us to recognize that we all view the world differently. That there is often more than one right way of doing something. So how can we better understand people who have a different worldview than our own? This is where the Enneagram comes in. 

Imagine a world where instead of getting frustrated at others’ behaviors, you started to understand why they were behaving that way. Instead of being quick to judge, you asked questions and listened. Instead of assuming that everyone should act like you, you were able to understand the differences in others.

Because when we know better, we can do better.


 ❇︎ BOOK ASHTON NOW ❇︎
  • Uderstand how your Enneagram type shows up in the workplace
  • Uncover effective ways to communicate and resolve conflict based on your Enneagram type
  • Learn how to best interact with other Enneagram types in the workplace
  • Gain skills on how to give and receive feedback based on your Enneagram type
  • Discover how to use the Enneagram to become a high-performing team

Water Cooler Talk: Using the Enneagram in the Workplace

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Researchers claim that we will spend 1/3 of our lives at work. This means that we spend more waking hours with our colleagues and coworkers than anyone else. A successful business and organization is only as strong as its people and the relationships within the group.

The Enneagram is a powerful tool that allows us to understand each other more deeply. The way that we communicate. How we work through conflict. Our strengths and our areas for growth in the workplace. Learning about the Enneagram can help strengthen relationships inside (and outside) of the working environment.

 ❇︎ BOOK ASHTON NOW ❇︎

Ashton Whitmoyer-Ober is an author, public speaker, Community Psychologist, and certified Enneagram educator. With a desire to see relationships strengthened, she created Enneagram Ashton in early 2019. She is the author of Enneagram for Relationships, The Two of Us: A Three Year Couples Journal, and The Enneagram Made Simple. Find her on Instagram @enneagramashton.

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Using the Enneagram in the workplace has shown to significantly improve both relationships, productivity and leadership. Ashton speaks to companies and their employees about how to utilize the Enneagram to grow and succeed together. 

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